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Seduction Training “Sure, you won’t be the only man tonight.”

Those were my wife's words, and I was thinking of them whilst having a drink with 7 beautiful women and praying that the night would turn all right.

Now my single man readers will be thinking that I should be blessing my lucky star for such an opportunity, but you see, I am a married man, and spending a great night with 7 fascinating, good looking and intelligent women, dangerous ideas might creep into my head if I don't constantly watch out for them!

The night starts as usual: drinks, and then more drinks. Little did I know that we were going to run into a seduction-training night, AKA a BootCamp, of Celebrity Pick-Up Artist Tyler Durden.

Suddenly a short Asian guy approaches our group and starts chatting to my wife: I am relaxed at first, since he is accompanied by a good looking Latin girl which I mistake for his girlfriend. I was later to discover that she was what pick up artists call a Pivot, a woman used to attract other women.

I stay put and I watch the situation evolving pretty quickly. The Asian guy moves along, and other unattractive men skillfully approach my group: chatting confidently, asking a girl to follow them where they could ‘talk’, and then either getting a phone number or making out in a surprisingly little time.

Within 10 minutes, I am left alone with my wife: where’s everyone? What’s going on in here?!


Yes, I’m a Tyler Durden, and this is a seduction-training night

If you have read the multi-million best-seller The Game you know who Tyler Durden is. If you haven’t read this great book, borrow it from a friend right away! It’s a wide opening expose’ of the of the pick up artists techniques, recently popularized with VH1’s series The Pick Up Artist.

The Game is not only a single man bible, but also a fascinating read for women: it shows ladies how an ugly man could approach them successfully, and it makes a clear statement of how very desperate men are for sex.

In The Game, Tyler is the archetypal bad guy who becomes a master pick up artist by copying other people ideas. Unattractive by common standards (sorry Tyler…) he develops a set of techniques which allows him to seduce women with ease.

I recognize him from a You Tube video of him I had recently seen and there and then I ask him an interview for Even Happier.


Meet the seduction master

Marco: ‘What’s your real name?’
Owen: ’Owen.’

Marco: ‘Is The Game really based on a true story.’
Owen: ‘Yes.’

Marco: ‘Owen, do you feel misrepresented by this book?’ [In The Game, Owen is The Bad Guy]
Owen: [with a sarcastic tone] ‘No, I am really an evil mastermind, I wanted to take over Project Hollywood [a pick up artist community], and I would have managed to if only The Game hadn’t stopped me!’

Marco: ‘Owen, let me interpret your answer. Every book needs a bad guy. I guess you are saying that The Game doesn’t do you justice.’
Owen: ‘Some would say so.’

Marco: ’Now tell me about your work: what’s Real Social Dynamics all about?’ Owen: ’ We move people from a scarcity mindset to an abundance reality. We also run Bootcamps like this one all over the western world. ’

Marco: ’Looks like a cool job! But what is true happiness for Owen?’
Owen: ’In life, I find happiness in the doing. It’s like picking up girls: if you don’t enjoy the process you have no chance of being successful. Enjoy what you are doing, the hell with the results. ‘

Marco: ’Owen, I owe it to my readers to ask your expert advice on how to approach women: could you give us you top three tips?’
Owen: ’Be positive: if you approach a woman with a sad face chances are that she’ll reject you. Be talkative: as you might imagine, if no one is doing the talking your pick up is not heading for success. Offer value: what are you going to tell her once you are there? Unless you have something interesting to say, her attention will quickly drift to someone else.’

Marco: ’Thanks Owen, it was great chatting with you.’
Owen: ’Anytime!’

The interview is over: I suddenly realize that I left my wife alone in a club full of pick up artists. I run back to look for her. Fortunately she’s there where I left her, and she is still alone: Phiuuuu!

I have the terrible idea of telling her who I have just met, and it turns out she wants to meet Tyler too. Nooo! So we look for Tyler in the club. ‘Hopefully he’s already gone’, I mumble within myself.

Unfortunately Owen/Tyler is still there. He beams us with a charming smile. Introductions are made, and he immediately works his magic with my wife whilst I am there watching. I am about to do something about it, but he manages to confuse me with a compliment, saying very loudly to my wife: “Gosh, what a sexy man you have married.”

The situation quickly worsens: my wife says to Tyler that she had noticed him as soon as he entered the club. She is flirting with him now! Tyler moves for the killing, and says that she must have been attracted to his hairy chest.

Attracted to what?

Thanks God. He blew it. My wife’s passing interest is gone for good.

Comments

Nice blog Marco!

Owen looks really convincing in the clip, and I agree with his philosophy of "enjoying the process". Now I want to read the book (not that i am desperate :)
Cheers, Andrey

Thanks Andrey! Go ahead with borrowing the book: it's worth your precious time. Ciao, M :)

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